Make sure that your adolescent understands the importance of personal hygiene and that she has all the necessary supplies to ensure that she is well-groomed and clean. Help her shop for razors, deodorant, and other necessary toiletries.
Talk to your daughter about good menstrual hygiene and make sure she all the supplies she needs. Explain the difference between sanitary pads and tampons, and make sure she understands that menstruation does not need to limit her ability to be physically active.
Your teenager’s face and hair will be much oilier than they were when she was younger. She may benefit from trying facial cleansers or shampoos specifically targeted to adolescents.
If your daughter wears makeup, teach her to remove it and to wash her face thoroughly before she goes to sleep at night.
Body image issues increase sharply during adolescence. Use your child’s physical development to guide you through what subjects you should be addressing. If acne is a persistent problem, for example, consider seeking advice from a dermatologist.
Make sure that the information you’re passing on to your child is current and medically sound. Some of the hygiene advice you may have been given when you were younger, about things such as shaving or menstrual hygiene, may no longer apply.
Tooth decay and cavities are entirely preventable yet remain widespread and affect children in the United States more than any other chronic infectious disease. Untreated dental problems can become infected, causing pain and problems with eating, speaking, and learning.
Help your child understand the importance of good oral hygiene, including brushing at least twice a day and flossing once a day.
If your child plays a contact sport, she should wear a mouth guard to protect against dental injury and concussion.
If a child’s tooth becomes dislodged due to an injury, place the tooth in a container of milk and seek dental advice as soon as possible. Permanent teeth can sometimes be re-implanted successfully.
Consult your child’s dentist about the growth of her wisdom teeth and whether they will need to be extracted.
School districts vary widely in the amount of physical education they offer in the curriculum, and by 11th grade physical fitness is usually no longer a daily part of the school curriculum. According to a recent report on physical activity among young people from the Institute of Medicine, the health arm of the National Academy of Sciences, even the best physical education curriculum fails to provide the necessary 60 minutes of recommended activity each day. It’s especially important for parents to step in and fill the void by encouraging physical activity after school and on weekends. One of the most effective ways for parents to do this is by modeling good behavior.
Organize family activities that incorporate physical activity, such as walks and bike rides. Outdoor chores such as raking leaves or shoveling snow are a good way to squeeze exercise into a busy weekend. Finding a physical activity that you and your child can do together, such as swimming at the local YMCA, is a great way for both of you to exercise and for you to spend quality time together.
Research has shown that even relatively small variations in the amount of physical activity young people get can make the difference between a healthy weight and being overweight. If your child is not physically active enough, encourage her to start by changing her behavior gradually. Setting aside some time each day for jumping rope, kicking a ball in the yard, or skateboarding around the block will soon make a difference that she will be able to see and feel.
Encourage your teenager to become active in organized sports, which can be an excellent way of get the recommended amounts of physical activity and establishing regular exercise habits that can become the basis of lifelong fitness.
If you are concerned that your teenager is not active enough, try to find ways to make physical activity appeal more to her. If she is shy about exercising with others, for example, home exercise videos could help her be more active. Your child is now old enough that she can make her own choices about the kinds of physical activity she wants to do. Help her understand that however she chooses to be active is fine, as long as she is physically active on a regular basis.
Help your child to enjoy exercise and think of it as something fun that will make her feel good about herself. The behavior you model as a parent is crucial. If your child sees that you prioritize exercise and enjoy it, the chances increase that she will be inspired to follow your example.
One reason that children are less physically active than in previous generations is that fewer and fewer children walk or bike to school. If doing so is a safe alternative for your child, encourage the practice. Encourage your child to walk whenever it is an option and set a good example, for example by taking the stairs rather than an elevator or by walking on escalators rather than just standing.
The link between physical activity and improved academic performance is becoming increasingly clear. According to a recent report from the Institute of Medicine, children perform cognitive tasks better after participating in a session of physical activity. The report also notes that “frequent bouts of physical activity throughout the day yield short-term benefits for mental and cognitive health.” Encourage your teenager to play actively or exercise before doing her homework or studying and to take short active breaks from sedentary activities. For example, if she is getting bogged down on some especially homework difficult problems, suggest that she clear her head by walking the dog or kicking a ball outside.
If your teenager is looking to supplement her income with a part-time job, encourage her to explore options that require physical activity, such as making deliveries, babysitting, or helping to coach a sports team.
Limit the amount of time your teenager is sitting in front of the television or computer monitor and set a good example with your own behavior. If you’re watching TV as a family, for example, have everyone get up and move around during commercial breaks.
In addition to being aware of whether your teenager is not getting enough exercise, pay attention if she appears to be exercising too much. It is around this time that many children become susceptible to pressure to lose weight and develop a certain body type through exercise and diet. Children who participate in certain sports or activities that emphasize weight targets or body shape, such as wresting or ballet, can be especially vulnerable to this kind of pressure.
Your child may try to make up for an inadequate sleeping schedule by bingeing on sleep during the weekends. By creating a rule that she cannot sleep beyond 10 am on the weekends, you will establish clear expectations around sleep and help her to avoid the drowsiness caused by an uneven sleep schedule.
Since most teens are not getting the recommended amount of sleep each evening, a 20-minute power nap could be helpful. However, experts caution that adolescents should not be sleeping after 4 PM because it will disrupt a night of restful sleep. If your child chooses to nap, have her set an alarm to ensure that she wakes up after 20 minutes.
With age comes greater responsibility. Now that your child is past the midway point of high school, she will most likely be setting her own bedtime. Encourage her to use the 30 minutes before falling asleep to unwind and relax. Experts recommend that adolescents use the time to read a book or write in a journal, instead of doing more arousing activities, like watching television and texting with friends.
Help your child maintain a regular study schedule so that she isn’t cramming the night before a major test. Researchers have found that the cost of losing sleep far outweighs the academic benefits of staying up late to study. Studying consistently for a few hours every night will ensure that she can get plenty of rest prior to an important exam and retain the information that she learned.
Does your child have a lot of homework? Encourage her to complete the homework that requires a computer earlier in the evening. This way she avoids exposure to the stimulating lights of the computer or television during the time right before bed.
Check your child’s bedroom to see if it is a dark, calm, and quiet environment. When you turn off the lights, there should be no illumination. Remove the television, computer, and other electronics from her room since they emit a blue light that disrupts your child’s sleep cycle.
It is important to lead by example. Establish an electronic curfew for the entire family at least 30 minutes prior to bedtime. Model the behavior that you want to see in your child by turning off your own cell phone and other technological devices. If your child owns a cell phone, encourage her to charge it in a different room from where she sleeps. This way she will not be distracted by tweets and texts.
Caffeine and nicotine are both simulants and prevent a healthy night of sleep, especially if consumed after 4 pm. If your child is having trouble sleeping, consider having her cut out caffeinated soda, energy drinks, chocolate, coffee, and nicotine for at least 2 weeks.
Now that your child is potentially driving, it is important to talk to her about the negative consequences of driving while sleep-deprived. Sleepiness is a leading cause of motor vehicle accidents among teenagers. Research shows that teen drivers who sleep less than 8 hours a night are one-third more likely to get into an accident compared with teen drivers who have slept for 8 or more hours per night.